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an enGAYgement session
Monday, September 6th, 2010

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Although same sex marriage is not legal and binding here in the Philippines, it is allowed and recognized in some parts of the world, like in the case of California, USA.

Filipino wedding photographer Newin Uy recently had an engagement session in the States (prenup pictorial as it is popularly known here) with a gay Asian American couple.

When asked by a fellow photographer how it felt taking on such a project, Nel said it felt exactly like shooting a heterosexual couple.  He added, “as long as they are in love, parang you wont think of a difference naman.”  He couldn’t have put it any simpler.

See the rest of the images from the pictorial (well, maybe not for the ultra moralists and homophobes). (more…)


Weight-loss strategy for bride and groom
Friday, January 15th, 2010

(via Inquirer.net) MANILA, Philippines – It has been a practice of busy women preparing for their wedding to eat less and neglect exercise. If you resort to starvation, you’d regain the weight during honeymoon.

The best weight loss strategy combines regular physical activity and a sustainable eating plan even after the wedding.

Early preparations

Your wellness program should be planned at least four to six months before your wedding.

Set your lifestyle goals. How much weight do you want to lose? If you have 10 pounds to lose, you should target at least two pounds every month. If you have 30 pounds to lose, better start sweating it out as early as now so you can lose an average of five pounds per month. Avoid over-dieting and using weight loss pills.

Set a budget for wellness. Allocate at least five to 10 percent of your budget for your wedding wellness program. Enroll in a health club or buy exercise equipment which costs less than P5,000.

Hire a credible fitness/wellness professional to coach you every week or every two weeks on your six-month eating and exercise program so you can get faster results.

Spend time for exercise. Delegate the wedding tasks to your friends and family or get a wedding coordinator.

Start your weight training program so you can get a toned body, especially your arms and back. Full body weight training can be done 30-45 minutes two to three times a week. Include all exercises for the back, chest, shoulders, arms, core, buttocks and thighs.

Start a journal on your food intake and physical activities. Combine your wedding notebook with the wellness journal so you are always reminded about your commitment to health and fitness.

Two to four months before:

Ask your fiancé to exercise with you at least once a week so you will get the chance to talk more about your lifestyle goals. This fitness bonding is important so both of you will avoid the “after-wedding” weight gain.

Include fitness and wellness items in your wedding registry. This is a good idea for your outdoor getaway like a tent for hiking and camping.

One to two months before:

Shop for clothes in smaller sizes as reward. This will motivate you to continue your wellness program by moving more and eating healthy.

Treat yourself in the spa. Enroll in a yoga class with your fiancé to learn how to breathe properly.

A few days to two weeks before:

Do the easiest and most accessible type of physical activity you can do at home or around your village like walking or jogging.

Avoid saucy and fatty foods. Get enough rest so you can physically and mentally prepare yourself for your most-awaited day.


“I Do or I Die!” - an invite to the book launch
Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

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RJ Ledesma sent an email about the launch of his book I Do or I Die! RJ Ledesma’s Imaginary Guide to Getting Married and other Man-made Disasters (As Told to him by his Yaya) and he wants us to share with you. :)

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Dear friends,

Greetings! I hope you guys can make it to the launch of my newest humor book “I Do or I Die! RJ Ledesma’s Imaginary to Getting Married and other Man-made Disasters (As Told to him by his Yaya)” this coming THURSDAY (October 22) 6pm at National Bookstore, Glorietta 5 in Makati City. Please feel free to bring friends, buy a couple of signed copies to help me pay for my baby’s diapers. I’ll see you guys there!

BTW, if you are abroad and would like to order a copy of the book, you can pick it up from here

I would really appreciate the support and I look forward to seeing you there!

Cheers,
RJ Ledesma


Iba na ang (groom na) matangkad!
Thursday, May 21st, 2009

While browsing the website of Celebrations! – the bridal show & special events expo happening this weekend in SMX — I’ve encountered this feature about this unique product for men who wants to add a few more inches in time for the honeymoon… er… wedding day pala! :)

It’s by Bradford Shoe Co. which is joining a wedding fair for the first time.  The company has developed  “height tech” shoes for men who want to look 3-4″ inches taller instantly and effortlessly.  The shoes look and feel no different from regular shoes.

Unlike elevator shoes, Bradford claims theirs are specially designed and engineered by not simply inserting additional insole into regular shoes.  They say doing this would make a regular shoe extremely uncomfortable, painful and may even injure your feet.  Below is a diagram of Bradford’s AddHeight-Technology.

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This is especially worth considering for grooms who want to appear taller than his bride especially if she’s really keen on wearing high heels. As for me, I’ll go look for the Bradford booth in Celebrations! this weekend and try me a pair! Astig kaya matangkad!  hehehe. :)


A Groom with a view!
Thursday, May 19th, 2005

It’s a groom’s turn to share his Top 10. Here are ten ways to assess if the wedding bug already hit you. It’s a man’s view so expect something gross… just a bit actually.

Written and posted by Jovan (ni Cha) in his blog last April– just a month before he stood by the aisle. Read on…